A Coin Has 2 Sides.

I have been pondering for a while now. I tried to be the second Vince but evidently I am not cut out to be like him. It has come to my attention that my pathetic attempts to humor or bring joy to the Blogosphere world is futile.

Hence, I think I am switching back to conventional blogging. Let words do the talking since a picture carries a thousand words and perhaps it sends the wrong message or misleads people. 

According to Fanwonder, we should blog about stuff that we are passionate about because it is of our interest and readers can sense the passion in it. Therefore, I have decided to blog about something I am good at, being Emo.

I am sure everyone faced a situation where your parents actually apologized for not being able to provide for you the best of everything but of the best that they could afford. I went out shopping with my mom and saw many stuff that interests me, but recalling what a heavy burden I was to my family, I just window shopped and walk off.

Obviously, she is my mom and she noticed my disappointment as I walk pass those stores knowing I will not be able to get them in the nearest time. While walking, I hid my disappointment and feigned a cheerful look but somehow she walked close to me and asked me was I disappointed not being able to have everything I wanted while my friends have everything they wanted?

I lied. I told her mom, materialistic possession does not interest me because you and dad have provided enough love and care for me. But deep down, I was disappointed seeing friends with i phones, DSLRs, or cars.

I know mom has been trying her best. I know that I should not be too demanding but...
Don't you get that feeling where you want something so badly but it would be too much for your parents to handle since the funds could be put to better use.You would eventually stop asking for it (literally) but deep down you still want badly.

As I lied, I feigned another smile to comfort mom but deep down I was torn. I was torn not because of disappointment but because of my mom's words. Why ask when it is evident? I am sure she should know that I would lie.

But nevertheless, that topic was not mentioned again.
I am sure from my earlier posts that I did not have a smooth life and that I was Emo.
Some from Innit would have known from Jady's prediction that I have a scarred childhood.

Come to think of it, something happened today.
Mom and dad was having dinner and they asked me to join them, it was an unwritten rule in my house that all of must have our meals together during dinner. However over the years, I have been ignoring that rule because I feel myself distancing myself from my family members.

After their dinner, they walked up to me and asked me to Google about Vietnam. I did and they were checking about the city of Da Nang. I was puzzled, now is certainly not the right time for them to be planning a vacation. Have my parents lose their minds?

After dad left, I asked mom why the sudden interest in Da Nang? Well, the truth came out and dad might be going to Da Nang, Vietnam. He has applied for the job to support me and it was heart wrenching.

Dad and I have not been close since my early days as a child. When I was in kindergarten, all I could remember of dad was seeing his car leaving the house as I woke up. At night, I would be fast asleep when he returns. Sometimes, I could hear mom and arguing in the kitchen and I would silently cry in my room.


I feared my father instead of respecting him. He was a strict man but deep down he was gentle. Over the months I find myself distancing myself from dad because I felt awkward around him. If dad goes, perhaps my family would be able to lead a more fancy life but the price is not seeing dad for some time. He is going there for a construction project and it would be months before I can see him perhaps, years.

Many given the opportunity would like to pursue their ambition. But I don't have that opportunity. I wanna be a billionaire so freaking bad Nuffy and retire at a age of 30 to a remote tropical beach and own a sea side BBQ restaurant.

That would be my dream life but do you know what mom said to me? She wants me do PhD and I was flabbergasted. If I want to lead my dream life, I don't have the time to study for PhD because I would have to work and save as much as possible to earn my ideal life. My ideal place would be Hawaii as I sit on a hammock and play a saxophone. I know, why saxophone? Well, it's my passion. Or lie on a hammock and enjoy the cool breeze before walking to my restaurant in the afternoon to enjoy cold beer with tourists and meeting new people.

If Hawaii is not possible perhaps somewhere with a beautiful seaside far from the hustle and bustle of city life. But what about my parents then? What about my other half? Would any girl be radical like me to give up Gucci, Channel or LV to go through a mediocre but peaceful life?

Guess not. Signing off.

So Nyuh Shi Dae 소녀 시대

I was bored during the holidays. Yes, quite sick of holidays. I am forced to stay at home while friends are twitting with their black berries or i-phones about their whereabouts.

CleverMunkey is in Singapore.

Jfook is in Kuching.

richteo2 just came back from Taiwan.


While I am stuck in a small town, Puchong.


So, I decided to find a way to "entertain" myself.

So i watched some videos to entertain myself. 

Hello Baby by SNSD

Synopsis.

The baby is Kyungsan, at the start of the series he is 9 months old and boy is he a lucky baby. He get to touch all the SNSD babes got taken care by SNSD stars.


How many guys would die to get such luxurious treatment. I know I wouldn't since life is more important would. 



There are many episodes and you can catch them on Youtube then type in Hello Baby SNSD and choose the episode that you want or you can use my link above.

Enjoy watching SNSD's way of taking care of Kyungsan and watch how he reacts to the different Shoshis(members of the SNSD).

Loved most by Kyungsan.

Sunny

At the start of Hello Baby, Sunny won the Baby trivia and became Kyungsan's daily mother.
As the daily mother, she gets to decided who touches Kyungsan and who doesn't. It's common that Kyungsan loved her more since she spent the most time with him and hogged Kyungsan all to herself.



Disliked most by Kyungsan

Tiffany

I have no idea why Kyungsan dislikes Tiffany. He just cries whenever Tiffany is around even though Tiffany cares for him genuinely. It is said babies can sense evil in people but how can Tiffany be evil? She is so innocent and fragile unlink Sunny.




Biggest Achievement.

YoonYul

At first, YoonYul were not given a chance to hold Kyungsan because of Sunny. I dislike what Sunny did because I am a fan of Yoona it's unfair for them. But eventually, they managed to win Kyungsan's heart bit by bit. 


From the series they have Daily Dad too. But one dad only and randomly selected among famous people.

MC Mong

Seriously, he is funny. You will laugh at his actions. I wouldn't want to spoil it for you all.


We have Best Moms and Worst Moms. 

Well, watch it too find out more. I am certain you will find it entertaining. 

Signing off.

Man's Best Friend

Like the title above suggests, I will elaborate more on man's best friend.

Not mine.

Fine that's not it, although it is kind of tempting.


I am going to tell you the real one now.

Ladies sold separately.

Fine. I will get back to the conventional man's best friend.

Siberian Huskies ♥

Man's Conventional Best Friend are dogs while mine are Siberian Huskies puppies ♥.


Man and dogs have been there for each other for centuries.
Recently a youtube video has caused an outrage as she threw puppies into a river. As the puppies squealed for their lives, she laughed and sort of enjoyed it.

My friend on Facebook suggested that we throw her children into the river and see how she feel.
But her children are innocent, besides if someone is going to get thrown into the river, it should be her.

Ok. I am not use to writing a serious post. Ending it here abruptly.

One last detail.
 Online Pet Store (New)

It's by my crazy, looney, whacky but fun to be around friend.

I kept my promise but will repost the link in a better post when I am in the mood.

Signing off

Life.

Life is full of random stuff and most of the time, you won't see "It" coming.

Small ass and bug melons~~ What were you people thinking off? XD

Another version would be something like this.

But once a blue moon, life can be predictable.

Why work your butt off in life?

Besides life being mostly unpredictable, we should know that one man's meat is another man's poison.

See, things are not that bad.

But life is filled with competition and there are some people who would befriend you and later stab you for self interest.

Competitions

Life is about adapting as well. When life gives you Lemons, make Lemonade.

Another version of adapting.

Better prospect in the service sector in the future.

Life is about loop holes as well; people would find all sort of methods to get what they want.

Technically, he's doing as he was told. He's playing outside.

Life can be cruel too. Just when the sweet scent of income arrive, something pungent covered it.

99% of working adults worst nightmare.

There are times when life is just Lame.

Lame~~

Perhaps Lamer?

How lame can it get, you might be wondering.

Life too is about compromise; where we give and take.

See, they actually exchange stuff there.

Dreams can be beautiful but they are never real while reality may not be as nice but it's real at least.

Family Guy.

However, sometimes, dreams do come true.

Can you see the resemblance?

Life is also filled with good and bad influences and we have to make that decision by ourselves.

Life can give you hell.

But life can be pleasant as well.

Not that I am obsessed about.

Alright. But to come to a conclusion. Life is simply

Colorful and Beautiful

Signing off...
I am getting my Husky soon =) Wish me luck XD

Facebook

Facebook is a powerful tool these days. It can connect people from around the world. You can practically share whatever you did on that particular day with any one in this world who owns a device to surf the web and a connection service.

Monkey commented on your status.

You're on Facebook and you received a notification.

Heck, anything's possible alright.

However lets go back to current issues.
There are many types of Facebook bloopers in this world and you would not believe until you actually see with your very own eyes.

• Facebook Illiterate. Does not know how to use Facebook.

How to use Facebook? Pardon the second "How to" 

 

• Facebook Newbie. Freshie on Facebook.

He updated his status without realizing it's open for public.

• Facebook Addict. Eat, Sleep and Toilet with Facebook.

Facebook might be used in rehabilitation centers.

•  World Leaders. Anyone can own a Facebook account.

Imagine wars are held out this way instead of the conventional method.

 

• Nerdy users. Baffled by his question.

Well, what a mystery.

• Humiliated Users. Due to typos which causes major Humiliation.

Sending the wrong message because of a typo.

• Like Addicts.  They will like every single statement they see or that their friends liked.

Liking one or two or maybe several statements is fine. But dozens of statements just fills up my news feed.

•  Parents on Facebook. You will never like it. Trust me =)

Yes sir. Your daughter is fine.  Imagine your dad seeing you like this. ZOMGWTFBBQ

Moms on Facebook. Mam, please click the unlike button, formerly  the like button.

•  Facebook Couples. Relationship statuses.

Imagine getting dumped through Facebook. ROFL

•  Lastly, the not sot bright Users. Nice picture.

It's a water tumbler.

Signing off.
No Facebook users were harmed in the production of this post.


I haven't watched the video yet. Slow connection and really want to go to sleep already. Good night

Hospitals and I

I bear no grudge against any medical staff but I hate the fact that someone I knew was admitted into the hospital.

I was 7 and I first visited a hospital. Being the naive kid I was, I thought it would be like a field trip. Even though there was a pungent smell of medicine, I simply ignored it. We were there to visit my grandfather who had a heart condition but I was too distracted by the new environment.

I did not bothered to console my paternal grandmother nor did I spoke to my grandfather. And who'd knew, that would be the last time I would see or speak to him ever again. He got discharged after that, but as a kid, I thought being discharged means grandfather is fine now, but my naiveness knew no boundaries back then.

The second time I visited a Hospital was when my teacher was hospitalized. Again my naiveness knew no boundaries. I was staying at my maternal grandmother's place when mom called me out of the blues to informed me that my teacher was in a state of coma. I was flabbergasted beyond words but naive at the same time. I was 100% sure that she would definitely get better and everything would be fine again.

However, I got another call from my mom after a couple of hours, she informed me that my teacher was dead. I was perplexed and finally my naiveness saw the limit. Death is irreversible and I have to accept that fact. Later, my friends called to inform me that she's brain dead.

That sparked hope in me and I was beaming with naiveness again until reality caught up with me and gave me a tight slap. Brain death is the same as being dead.  In the end, I went for her funeral and that was it.

In my mind, hospitals brings bad news to people.

I am texting him that he is a daddy now.

 Imagine you're at work and your wife texts you.

Congratulations dear, you're a daddy.

Signing off

The Emo Life in Teenagers

Teenagers these days often try to do the Emo look these days. Many have tried yet not all of them managed to pull the Emo look successfully. Everyone should know that not all can pull of this look as it requires certain criteria to be fulfilled.

Below are several criteria which I believed are essential to pull of an Emo look.

• Constant monotonous depressed mood. Most of the time, teenagers are able to dress up Emo but they are unable to maintain their Emo mood for the rest of the day. It is crucial because no matter how Emo are clothes are, a smile wipes the Emo look for good. 

• Dark colored clothing. Clothing is essential too. A good pick would be black naturally since Black refers to death and misery. While the trousers, it don't have to be black; normal Blue jeans would be fine. However, jeans have to have patches to make it look authentic.

• Emo surrounding. Starters should surround themselves with Emo people to blend it with the Emo surrounding. When you stay in an Emo click, you will tend to blend in if you put the effort to do it. Once you're ready, you can start hanging out with other non Emo clicks to strike out. At this point, you will be labeled as the Emo one in the group; achieving your desired status.

• Downwards look. Another crucial point is looking down. A good tip is tilting your head downwards and carry on walking silently alone. This is a good way to signify one being Emo hence the isolation from people.

•  Lethargic. Emo people should keep a lethargic look. An Emo look would be wiped off if one is filled with enthusiasm or spirit. Among ways to look lethargic is hugging your knapsack while sitting or lying on the table with arms folded. 

Now those are some steps for people who want to look Emo to follow but of course there are Don'ts as well.

• Seek attention. Emo is a look and a way of life. Do not walk into a group of people who are chatting away. As an Emo person, you should stay in a corner far from people and continue reminiscing about stuff. But answer when a conversation is made, to avoid being rude; even with one word replies is fine.

• Emo all the time. Our aim is to be Emo but for teenagers, being Emo depends on conditions. Never be Emo in front of Lecturers or Teachers. Reason is simple, Lecturers would pick on you seeing you being lethargic in class. Teenagers should also wipe off the Emo look in front of parents to prevent parents from interrogating them.

• Stupid stuff. Emo is usually linked with wrist cutting. However, I am promoting a safer way to being Emo. Wrist cutting is to create another source of pain (Physical) to cover the Emotional pain that one is facing but it is suicidal and seriously not to be followed.

Lastly, there is one more golden rule in being Emo that everyone should know. 

There is no Actual Guide Lines to be Emo. Hence, this guide is nothing but mere opinions only.

Why do you want to be Emo in the first place before I end this topic.

Emo is not fun because it is a double edged sword in life, it hurts yourself and people close to you. 

Having say this, Please try your best to prevent yourself from being an Emo person.

Besides, this world ain't big enough for 2 Emo people.
Signing off~~

Have an Emo rific day if you're an Emo person like me but if you're not stay clear.